Self Worth - Your Secret Path To Success In Love

You cannot blame anyone or anything for what is happening in your life. You can often unconsciously look for someone to blame when things go wrong, rather than accept responsiblitiy for your own actions and choices.

But when good things come into your life, do you somehow believe you deserve them, and rarely look for someone to praise or credit for your good fortune?  If you blame others for the bad things, why not praise others for the good things in your life?
Blaming others is one way of avoiding responsibility for yourself. But as long as you do that, you will never be the master of your life and destiny.

Everything that happens to you happens for a purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.

Sometimes, when all your doubts, fears and insecurities start getting to you, its easy to toy with the idea of “I wish I was somebody else.”  More often than not, you think and believe that someone or rather, most people are better than you.- when in reality, the fact is, most people are even more worried about themselves than you are.

Do you find yourself looking at other people, envying them for looking so outrageously perfect and wish you could trade places with them? You are not alone or unique! There are people who will look at you and think the same thing. You can be insecure of other people, who themselves are insecure of you. When you suffer from low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence and lose hope in self improvement, it is because you are enveloped in quiet desperation, thinking that most people are happier and more satisfied than you are.

As the song says “Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.” What could be more true? In order to love others, you must love yourself too. Remember, you cannot give what you do not have. Follow these 10 ways to improve your self worth, and you will never miss an opportunity to compliment yourself and others. A positive way of living will help you build self esteem, your starter guide to self improvement!

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